From Fighting to flourishing

A blog to help your family think, grow, and flourish

I Messed Up. Now What?

When we think of the word “Integrity” we link it to the idea of morality, to having strong moral values and principles. And when we (or others) do something that “lacks integrity,” we tend to judge ourselves, adding shame and guilt to the fact that we missed the mark. Did you know that there is another definition of integrity,
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Why is ANXIETY the new epidemic? Especially among our YOUNG CHILDREN?

 Anxiety is the new epidemic, especially among our children.      This is a statement that I am hearing more and more and one that is easy to find evidence to prove. Kids are suffering from anxiety, stress, nervousness, worry, frustration, and parents don’t know what to do about it, right? In my own culture, a conservative community where
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How to Feel Better in One Easy Step

Sometimes something that looks pretty or sounds nice, isn’t.   Sometimes we pretend our beliefs about other people are just common sense and we hang onto these beliefs in order to justify ourselves and our own agenda and it keeps our own ego intact.   And we get a nice juicy payoff. We get to be right and it
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Manuals are for Appliances. Not Your Family.

Whenever we get a new appliance, I hear the same question. “Did you read the manual before you started to use that _________________ oven, blow-dryer, refrigerator? You’ll find it will work better for you if you understand how it works.”   Me: “It’s a TOASTER! SHOULDN’T it act like any other toaster?”   Joel: “You never know. I always
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How to improve your child’s mental fitness

Today’s world is tricky to manage, to say the least, and yet as parents we worry that if the world is tricky for us to manage, how in the world are we to expect our kids to manage their emotional well-being in this fast-paced, demanding world that they live in? How do we help them with things like stress,
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Stop Fighting. Start Flourishing!

Stop Fighting. Start Flourishing You’re watching your children fight AGAIN! You want it to stop. They are driving you crazy. You can’t find a way to stop them. They won’t listen to you. You’ve tried everything and don’t know what to do. You’re exhausted. You think, “Someday they’ll regret the way they are treating each other. I hope they
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Thought Tweaks – Thought Shifts to Help Your Family Get Better Results

Give your brain a new job!   Did you know your brain has a job? Yep! AND it’s super efficient at getting the job done! It’s not a quitter. It keeps doing its job over and over and over again. And sometimes the job its doing is actually TERRIBLE! And it doesn’t even know it. Maybe you could try
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My Favorite Reads for Positive Change

I Have Always Loved Books. I remember as a young child, when our parents weren’t so afraid to let us roam the neighborhoods on our stingray bicycles, I would grab a nap sack, sneak my brother’s very cool bicycle from the garage, and head off to the library. I remember combing the shelves jammed with books and taking in
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Take Care of Yourself So You Can Take Care of Your Children

You’re on an airplane and the flight attendant is giving instructions which we’ve heard a thousand times before. We hardly even process what they are telling us as we wait to race down the runway and take off for our new destination. How many of us really stop to think about how important it is for us to make
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Flourish

FLOURISH

 

Little bits of wisdom delivered to your in-box each week. I gather the best mental fitness ideas and share them with you, tips that I believe will improve your family’s emotional well-being. 

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